One person's happiness is always another person's misery: but why should it matter?

First, a little about me: I love helping people whether it is to listen to their incoherent rambling or actually prevent them from having a melt down and killing themselves. So, I help people and just listen to whatever they have to say, as per the title, it is the result of a very recent occurrence.
So, Ready!, Set!, GO!

Alright, my friend, who's name will remain anonymous due to a fear she has for this juicy story getting out into her circle of friends and ruining her, has been crushing on this guy for quite some time, right? He's pretty cute, from what I've heard, and he has this certain suave and close but not-close-enough shave all-day 5 O'clock shadow kinda rugged Jew look. Nice catch, I said.

Well, my friend whom of which I never thought would sway from her bible and instrument long enough to even consider a short break with just a single boy, let alone a major relationship, has made some decent headway with this boy. There have been minor problems along the way, like: An old girlfriend that he couldn't get over, and his Cigar smoking habit, but she has looked past this and kept on keeping on and it has paid off. A long and in depth email lead to the shocking realization that my friend, Saint-of-a-Virgin, slipped her tongue within a boys mouth with pleasure and he has also pursued past the American "Bubble-zone". Cuddling and a continuation of the make-out session continued throughout the night and between random clusters of nap.

What's the big deal Sheldon? Everyone makes out, and such, what's to be upset about?

This is where the title comes into play my friends. As Karma states every reaction has an equal reaction to balance the scale of good and evil in the world. Well as soon as her happiness ensued my misery began, my friend, had gone further than I, she has won, beaten me with tongue, (interesting fact: The tongue is the strongest muscle in the human body). This is fine, no big deal, you know why? Because happiness must win, it must form it's cordon and prevail through the misery of counterpart.

Reason: Without happiness no one would be happy, clearly!!

I am so happy for my friend, I am glad she has this boy to hold on to and cuddle when things look dark, and when hope is being reaped from her hands, and there is no one around, even myself, to help her. This boy is the reason for her to continue perusing phases in her life with confidence and with a strong smile and upbeat angle of approach.

Way to go girl!

This is all for today.